Why is gentleness a spiritual “gift”?
Sunday Rewind is a 5-day Devotional based on the weekly sermon at Resonate Community Church
September 17th Sermon, Day 4
When we think of gentleness, we might picture something soft, weak, or passive. But the gentleness of Christ—the gentleness the Spirit produces in us—is actually strength under control.
Jesus described Himself as "gentle and humble in heart." This was not a weakness in His character but a deliberate choice to harness His immense power and authority for the good of others. The One who could command the wind and waves chose to speak tenderly to the broken. The One who could call down legions of angels chose to touch lepers with compassion.
When the Holy Spirit develops gentleness in us, He's teaching us to use our strength, abilities, knowledge, and influence not to dominate others but to serve them. Gentleness means responding to provocation with calm rather than anger, speaking truth with love rather than harshness, and treating fragile people with care rather than impatience.
In a world that often equates power with force and volume, Spirit-produced gentleness stands out. It's countercultural to respond to hostility with kindness, to criticism with patience, and to weakness with support. Yet this is exactly how Jesus responded to the broken world around Him.
Bible Verse
"Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls." - Matthew 11:29
Reflection Question
In what relationship or situation might God be calling you to display strength through gentleness rather than through force or control?
Quote
Gentleness, not to be mistaken, with weakness. Gentleness is strength under control.
Prayer
Lord Jesus, thank You for Your perfect example of gentleness. Help me to see that true strength isn't about dominating others but about harnessing my power to serve them. In situations where I'm tempted to be harsh or forceful, give me Your gentle spirit. May I reflect Your character in how I treat others, especially those who are vulnerable or difficult. Amen.
